Perfectionism and comparison can be debilitating. It's easy to get caught up in what everyone else is doing. "They" seem to have it all together don't they? Maybe they do - or maybe it just seems that way, from where you are standing.
Be inspired by them and shift your focus back to you. Place your attention on what you want for yourself and take one step towards that.
Start today. Move on... It won't be long now.